Many of us get to a point where we enter a relationship (of sorts) with an agreement of no strings attached. We often take this approach after coming out of a situation that left us hurt and wounded. The idea is to not let our feelings get involved again (too quickly) so that we can heal from last time. That would be perfect if feelings didn't have a mind of their own. Adding to this is the fact that most are in "no strings attached" situations, but having sex. It's my belief