Esse DOct 4, 20174 min7 Reasons Why Cookie Should Get Over LusciousEmpire's back for its fourth season and everyone is excited (I mean everyone). You probably can literally walk in ANY business office in...
Esse DSep 24, 20174 min5 Things Season Two of HBO's Insecure Taught Us About RelationshipsAlthough I'm an avid watcher of Insecure (HBO), I didn't cover ONE episode of the second season. Why? I had to digest it fully. Actually,...
Esse DSep 13, 20173 minDown with the Single Shaming!You know that aunt or the one lady from your church that keeps pointing out how barren your left ring finger is? Or the circle of your...
Esse DSep 9, 20175 min10 Signs You're Not Ready to be in a RelationshipIt's oftentimes glaringly obvious when you're not ready to be in a relationship, but other times it can be rather tricky to tell if you...
Esse DAug 31, 20173 min7 Football Terms Every Woman Should Know For a Game Day DateWe've all pretended to know more about something to impress a date, but when pretending goes wrong it can be less than impressive to your...
Esse DAug 13, 20173 minYour Credit Has a lot to do With Him Not ProposingLike so many others, you've meticulously checked off all your boxes as you progressed in life. You got your degree(s), landed that...
Esse DAug 9, 20172 minHave Dating Apps Gone too Far?On this new dating scene, more and more people are turning to apps and websites for unconventional ways of meeting people. Because of...
Esse DAug 1, 20174 min5 Misconceptions Love Songs CreateI'll openly admit that music has been and always will be my anti-drug. (Remember those anti-drug campaigns from years ago?) When I need...
Esse DJul 18, 20173 min5 Things That Delay Dating After Being Cheated OnLet's face it... cheaters suck. They're selfish and sometimes sociopaths, but this post isn't about them. It's about their victims. It's...
Esse DJun 29, 20173 min6 Ways to Build Self-Confidence after a Break-upI keep preaching about self-love and "being a better you" in my posts, but I haven't really said anything about how to do this. Sometimes...
Esse DJun 20, 20173 min8 Things Mothers Should Have Taught Their Sons About DatingAs the mother of a little boy, I started thinking of all the ways I could add value to his life and what I would need to teach him while...
Esse DJun 10, 20172 minWhen You Can't Resist The Urge to be Irrational With Him*The following story may be based on actual events... BUT... I will neither confirm or deny.* I lay in his lap watching Game of Thrones...
Esse DJun 5, 20172 min5 Modest Ways to let Him Know You're InterestedSome women are naturally aggressive, but that's not always seen in the best light. Others are pretty passive and introverted, which may...
Esse DJun 2, 20172 minAre You Punishing Your Partner For Your Ex's Shortcomings?One thing I can say that hasn't been an issue for me, is giving every man a fair chance to build or break my trust. While not always...
Esse DMay 24, 20173 min8 Reasons You Should Take Him out of the FriendzoneFace it... The likelihood that you've probably curved your future husband is at least at 50%. This also means the odds of you getting...
Esse DMay 17, 20172 minAre you dating a version of one of your parents?They say you always end up dating a version of your mom or dad and it has a lot to do with the Oedipus complex (we're sexually attracted...
Esse DMay 10, 20173 minShould Women Do More Pursuing?Just typing the title of this post alone has me flinching as if one of my aunts is behind me about to slap the back of my head. I grew up...