I’ve contemplated returning to regularly posting several times but was NEVER motivated enough to commit. There have been so many...

Disclaimer: From the outside looking in, we can never really make assumptions about relationships with full certainty. (This is why I...

Raise your hand if you’re sick of this pandemic. (Meeee!) While quarantining may be a lonely road, it may work out for your personal...

I can’t believe I used the E word in the title of this post (because I swear ya’ll ran it in the ground), but I digress. Why is everybody...

Now is the time, sis! I know, I know, you’re probably thinking “Now is the time for what besides hunkering down and binging shows?” It’s...

It’s the first post of the year and this one is all about you, sis! I mean… who else would it be about? So, I know you’ve made your...

Now, I usually refuse to publicly “go up” for a couple, but there’s something I love about Toya Wright and Robert “Red” Rushing (and it’s...

We (women) are used to being the one to curve guys and having our options lined up, but what happens when YOU get curved? How do you...

This is one of those topics where you’re going to want to shoot the messenger. Two things: I’m still going to keep it real and I’m bullet...

When a woman announces that she’s planning to have a “hot girl summer” (HGS), most men interpret that as her freely sleeping with any man...

I am and will ALWAYS be the most prude person around when it comes to open relationships, swinging, throuples, threesomes, etc. I DON’T...

All of them are fake. Let’s start there. Okay okay… maybe not ALL of them (because it looks like Apollo Nida has moved on with his...

You know that phase when you first start dating someone and EVERYTHING about them is interesting and amazing? You know… that point early...

When it’s your time to plan date night, there’s a certain level of pressure involved (if you really care about making the evening...

Pretty teeth. Nice hair. Strong jawline. A beard that connects. We typically have a mostly vain list of what we’re looking for in a man,...

It’s possible to land a date, go out, and get NO callback. The dating world is extremely fickle right now and while petty has been a...

Some of us can talk ourselves out of a GOOD man. I mean… easily. It’s probably automatic for the chronic skeptics. When you think about...

Everybody thinks they know exactly what to do when they get into a new relationship, but that probably couldn’t be further from the...

Everybody’s not amazing at getting out there and meeting new people. Some career-driven people are actually pretty terrible at it. As a...

Self-reflection is hard. (…especially when it leads to the conclusion that YOU have been in your own way) No matter how hard it may be;...