Esse DMar 9, 20212 min4 Ways Prince Harry is Getting it Right with His WifeDisclaimer: From the outside looking in, we can never really make assumptions about relationships with full certainty. (This is why I...
Esse DFeb 22, 20214 minHow did a pandemic make me a better partner?!Raise your hand if you’re sick of this pandemic. (Meeee!) While quarantining may be a lonely road, it may work out for your personal...
Esse DJul 15, 20203 minWhy Do Women’s “Entanglements” Hit Harder?I can’t believe I used the E word in the title of this post (because I swear ya’ll ran it in the ground), but I digress. Why is everybody...
Esse DMar 18, 20202 min5 Reasons Why The Nationwide Quarantine May NOT be Killing Your Dating VibeNow is the time, sis! I know, I know, you’re probably thinking “Now is the time for what besides hunkering down and binging shows?” It’s...
Esse DJan 12, 20203 minSingle Woman’s Guide to New Year Self-Improvement ProjectsIt’s the first post of the year and this one is all about you, sis! I mean… who else would it be about? So, I know you’ve made your...
Esse DDec 1, 20191 minWhat are We Wearing to Toya and Red's Wedding?Now, I usually refuse to publicly “go up” for a couple, but there’s something I love about Toya Wright and Robert “Red” Rushing (and it’s...
Esse DNov 19, 20193 minWhat happens when YOU get curved?We (women) are used to being the one to curve guys and having our options lined up, but what happens when YOU get curved? How do you...
Esse DSep 14, 20194 min10 Sentiments You Didn't Know Were Toxic in RelationshipsThis is one of those topics where you’re going to want to shoot the messenger. Two things: I’m still going to keep it real and I’m bullet...
Esse DAug 10, 20192 min 5 Reasons Why Having a Hot Girl Summer is a NecessityWhen a woman announces that she’s planning to have a “hot girl summer” (HGS), most men interpret that as her freely sleeping with any man...
Esse DJul 18, 20192 minWhy You Shouldn’t Agree To An Open Relationship in Response to CheatingI am and will ALWAYS be the most prude person around when it comes to open relationships, swinging, throuples, threesomes, etc. I DON’T...
Esse DJun 24, 20193 minReality TV Star Break-ups That are FAKE All of them are fake. Let’s start there. Okay okay… maybe not ALL of them (because it looks like Apollo Nida has moved on with his...
Esse DJun 23, 20193 minTell Your Partner These 8 Things While You're in the Honeymoon PhaseYou know that phase when you first start dating someone and EVERYTHING about them is interesting and amazing? You know… that point early...
Esse DJun 13, 20192 minHow to Plan the Best Date Night He’s Ever HadWhen it’s your time to plan date night, there’s a certain level of pressure involved (if you really care about making the evening...
Esse DJun 7, 20193 minWhat You REALLY Should be Looking for in a ManPretty teeth. Nice hair. Strong jawline. A beard that connects. We typically have a mostly vain list of what we’re looking for in a man,...
Esse DMay 22, 20193 min5 Unspoken Dating Rules Everyone Should KnowIt’s possible to land a date, go out, and get NO callback. The dating world is extremely fickle right now and while petty has been a...
Esse DApr 28, 20194 min9 Lies You Tell Yourself When a Good Guy is Pursuing YouSome of us can talk ourselves out of a GOOD man. I mean… easily. It’s probably automatic for the chronic skeptics. When you think about...
Esse DApr 17, 20194 minWhat NOT to do When Starting a New RelationshipEverybody thinks they know exactly what to do when they get into a new relationship, but that probably couldn’t be further from the...
Esse DApr 13, 20192 min5 Phrases That Make Men Leave Your Dating Profile InstantlyEverybody’s not amazing at getting out there and meeting new people. Some career-driven people are actually pretty terrible at it. As a...
Esse DApr 10, 20194 min8 Signs YOU’RE the Reason You’re Still SingleSelf-reflection is hard. (…especially when it leads to the conclusion that YOU have been in your own way) No matter how hard it may be;...
Esse DApr 6, 20193 min5 Ways You’ve Been Helping Your Cheating ExesSo, you’re in the boat with most of the world and you have an ex that cheated. Sadly, it’s more common than not, but it’s also common to...